Boundless
October 17, 2009
I just got back from the 7th birthday party of one of my “inaanak”, the son of one of my closest friend. Come to think of it, how time flies, if I got married the same time as she, probably I also have one or two kids by now. But.. the big butt? is…. if that would be one of my plan that time. And the answer is Big NO…not that time, not the time after that and definitely not now or the future. I don’t know, but it never crossed my mind. I never panicked when I know my biological clock already ticking. Maybe, I am not a wife or mother material??.. Yes, maybe. The only thing I know is I enjoy my current status.
In parties like this, I expected to get hit with the question “Not married yet?” And I usually just say “no one special” or “no ring yet!” so I don’t have to go in to details about whoever I am spending time with. It always feels like you are the only single person, but I’d guess there will be a handful of other single people — and even a few who wish they were. Try to remember that the only reason anyone would ask you about your relationship status is because they don’t have anything interesting to talk about!
I saw the sister of my friend in that party, the same age as mine and also still single and she asked me “Why I am still single?”. I said “I could ask you the same question?”. She replied, “I love being single because I’m very independent and I like to do what I want, when I want it”. And I said “We have the same answer”.
What have I got to complain about anyway? I cannot possibly say something like “I think its time for a new start or time for a new beggining or I better think about it now” it sounds so bitter, as if I am regretting what I have been though or being single…. and I am not.
