Awareness
December 14, 2009
I’ve known her for more than 2 years, a very strong person when it comes on handling things. Always has something to reply on comments, long black hair that she always manage to take care and regularly visits the beauty parlor, meticulous on the fit of her dress and she can actually sew, a girly girly and a very feminine. Admitted she never had a boyfriend, no boyfriend since birth. My guy friend even set her up with his buddy but she strongly refused saying she doesn’t do that kind of stuff. And we always wonder why?
Just recently, the group accidentally found out or rather she admitted she is a lesbian. And she herself just realized it too. She is not someone who “always knew”, but someone who definitely looks back and says “oh that’s why I acted like that”. She was in a constant state of awe at her total lack of self-awareness as far as figuring out what she is.
She has a current partner with the same sex and claimed she wish to get out of the relationship. The group still think she is just confused and not yet confirmed. They understand her predicament and supporting whatever realization she wants. Now, I don’t know if I will still include her in my loop of girl friends whenever I greet them with a kiss….(kidding!!). Dont get me wrong, I dont have anything againts lesbians or gays. In fact, gays are genetics on my mothers’ side and I love them.
