Wat U C, Wat U Hear, Liv it Hir!
January 14, 2012Is your memory big enough to keep those things you did in your past years? Did you share to someone all your experiences? Or some things you rather kept a secret and just cherish it alone.
As human beings, We all have secrets, ones that we keep and ones that are kept from us.
There are things about us that no one else knows. Sometimes those things are pieces of our lives that we haven’t shared yet.
There are times that We have laughed and joked, talked about everything that mattered in our lives but still there are things that we don’t know yet with the other person.
We haven’t shared because we don’t know if the other person will understand us or it will be risky or embarrassing. We are afraid that if they know the “truth” about us, they’ll think less of us.
We all have secret lives, and we see in each other pretty much only what we’re interested enough to see.
Ironically, when we share, it brings us closer together. It creates a bond of intimacy that connects us at a deeper level. By knowing more of us, we experience more of our humanity. We seem more “real”. We become more authentic.
The most touching or shall we say “revealing” conversations we have will completely changed the nature of the relationship we have with the other person. It will happen because we choose to share and understand.
Memory loading!!!!
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